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001470458 1001_ $$aGibson, Lindsay C.,$$eauthor.
001470458 24510 $$aDisentangling from emotionally immature people :$$bavoid emotional traps, stand up for your self, and transform your relationships as an adult child of emotionally immature parents /$$cLindsay C. Gibson, PsyD.
001470458 264_1 $$aOakland, CA :$$bNew Harbinger Publications,$$c[2023]
001470458 300__ $$a1 online resource (250 pages)
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001470458 504__ $$aIncludes bibliographical references and index.
001470458 5050_ $$aIntro -- Contents -- Introduction -- Part I . Why EIPs Are the Way They Are -- 1. How would I know if someone was emotionally immature? -- 2. How can my grown-up parents be immature? -- 3. Are both my parents immature? -- 4. Why do they act like that? -- 5. They are so contradictory -- it baffles me. -- 6. Why is it always about them? -- 7. Nothing I do is ever enough. -- 8. Why is it so hard to get close or share anything real with them? -- 9. Why do they make it so hard to want to be around them? -- 10. Is there hope for a better relationship? -- Part II. How EIPs Have Affected You -- 11. My siblings had the same parents. Why are we so different? -- 12. It's like I don't exist around them. Why won't they listen or take my feelings into account? -- 13. I had to be the responsible one, the little grown-up, my parent's confidant. -- 14. I'm successful and have built a good life, but sometimes I feel like a fake. -- 15. Why can't they give me a little positive feedback? -- 16. I easily feel guilty, selfish, afraid, and full of self-doubt. -- 17. They always seem morally superior and "righteous." -- 18. My parent's religion made me feel afraid and unworthy -- 19. I was taught to believe things about myself that just aren't true. -- 20. I get overly emotionally involved in the EIP's needs and problems. -- 21. I can't think straight around them. I get confused and inarticulate. -- 22. I can't stand up to them. They always win. -- 23. I am so angry at them -- I can't stop thinking about what they've done. -- 24. I've had some disappointing relationships. How do I do it right next time? -- 25. How do I make sure I'm not an EI parent? -- Part III. Stepping Back -- 26. I can't help feeling guilty when they're upset with me -- 27. I know they're acting crazy, but I don't know how to respond when they're being absurd. -- 28. I just want them to love me and understand my feelings. -- 29. Every time I set a boundary, I feel like a mean, heartless person. -- 30. They say I don't love them enough or in the right way. Am I capable of love? -- 31. No matter what I do, they still seem hurt and betrayed. -- 32. I got free, but I miss our closeness. -- Part IV. Saving Yourself -- 33. I traded authenticity for approval. -- 34. I want to be myself, but I fear rejection -- 35. Who am I really? How do I know for sure what's best for me? -- 36. I try so hard to do things perfectly that I exhaust myself. -- 37. I wish I weren't such a people pleaser. -- 38. It kills me to ask someone for help. -- Part V. Solving Problems -- 39. I'm always nervous about angering or disappointing my adult child. -- 40. I still feel intimidated and apologetic around EIPs. -- 41. I'm so concerned about their reactions, it's hard to say my truth. -- 42. How can I get through to them? -- 43. I'm trying to be more assertive, but I keep going along with them -- 44. Even when I try my new strategies, I still end up feeling drained by them.
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001470458 533__ $$aElectronic reproduction.$$bAnn Arbor, MI$$nAvailable via World Wide Web.
001470458 588__ $$aDescription based on print version record.
001470458 650_0 $$aSelf-confidence in adolescence.
001470458 650_0 $$aSelf-help techniques for teenagers.
001470458 650_0 $$aAdult children of dysfunctional families$$xMental health.
001470458 650_0 $$aEmotional maturity.
001470458 650_0 $$aDysfunctional families$$xPsychological aspects.
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001470458 77608 $$iPrint version:$$aGibson, Lindsay C.$$tDisentangling from emotionally immature people.$$dOakland, CA : New Harbinger Publications, [2023]$$z9781648481512$$w(DLC)  2023002852
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