001479002 000__ 05898nam\a22009255i\4500 001479002 001__ 1479002 001479002 003__ DE-B1597 001479002 005__ 20231026035007.0 001479002 006__ m\\\\\o\\d\\\\\\\\ 001479002 007__ cr\un\nnnunnun 001479002 008__ 210830t20112013mau\\\\\o\\d\z\\\\\\eng\d 001479002 019__ $$a(OCoLC)979953951 001479002 019__ $$a(OCoLC)984616755 001479002 019__ $$a(OCoLC)987926972 001479002 019__ $$a(OCoLC)992489568 001479002 019__ $$a(OCoLC)999368773 001479002 020__ $$a9780674061361 001479002 0247_ $$a10.4159/harvard.9780674061361$$2doi 001479002 035__ $$a(DE-B1597)178262 001479002 035__ $$a(OCoLC)709593088 001479002 040__ $$aDE-B1597$$beng$$cDE-B1597$$erda 001479002 0410_ $$aeng 001479002 044__ $$amau$$cUS-MA 001479002 072_7 $$aPSY002000$$2bisacsh 001479002 1001_ $$aWay, Niobe, $$eauthor.$$4aut$$4http://id.loc.gov/vocabulary/relators/aut 001479002 24510 $$aDeep Secrets :$$bBoys' Friendships and the Crisis of Connection /$$cNiobe Way. 001479002 264_1 $$aCambridge, MA : $$bHarvard University Press, $$c[2011] 001479002 264_4 $$c©2013 001479002 300__ $$a1 online resource (336 p.) 001479002 336__ $$atext$$btxt$$2rdacontent 001479002 337__ $$acomputer$$bc$$2rdamedia 001479002 338__ $$aonline resource$$bcr$$2rdacarrier 001479002 347__ $$atext file$$bPDF$$2rda 001479002 50500 $$tFrontmatter -- $$tCONTENTS -- $$tCHAPTER 1. THE HIDDEN LANDSCAPE OF BOYS' FRIENDSHIPS -- $$tCHAPTER 2. INVESTIGATING BOYS, FRIENDSHIPS, AND HUMAN NATURE -- $$tPart I: Friendships during Early and Middle Adolescence -- $$tCHAPTER 3. "SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO SPILL YOUR HEART OUT TO SOMEBODY" -- $$tCHAPTER 4. BOYS WITH FEELINGS -- $$tCHAPTER 5. NICK AND GEORGE: STORIES OF RESISTANCE -- $$tPART II: FRIENDSHIPS DURING LATE ADOLESCENCE -- $$tCHAPTER 6. "WHEN YOU GROW UP, YOUR HEART DIES" -- $$tCHAPTER 7. AS BOYS BECOME MEN -- $$tCHAPTER 8. FERNANDO AND DANNY -- $$tCHAPTER 9. THE CRISIS OF CONNECTION -- $$tNOTES -- $$tACKNOWLEDGMENTS -- $$tINDEX 001479002 506__ $$aAccess limited to authorized users. 001479002 520__ $$a"Boys are emotionally illiterate and don't want intimate friendships." In this empirically grounded challenge to our stereotypes about boys and men, Niobe Way reveals the intense intimacy among teenage boys especially during early and middle adolescence. Boys not only share their deepest secrets and feelings with their closest male friends, they claim that without them they would go "wacko." Yet as boys become men, they become distrustful, lose these friendships, and feel isolated and alone.Drawing from hundreds of interviews conducted throughout adolescence with black, Latino, white, and Asian American boys, Deep Secrets reveals the ways in which we have been telling ourselves a false story about boys, friendships, and human nature. Boys' descriptions of their male friendships sound more like "something out of Love Story than Lord of the Flies." Yet in late adolescence, boys feel they have to "man up" by becoming stoic and independent. Vulnerable emotions and intimate friendships are for girls and gay men. "No homo" becomes their mantra.These findings are alarming, given what we know about links between friendships and health, and even longevity. Rather than a "boy crisis," Way argues that boys are experiencing a "crisis of connection" because they live in a culture where human needs and capacities are given a sex (female) and a sexuality (gay), and thus discouraged for those who are neither. Way argues that the solution lies with exposing the inaccuracies of our gender stereotypes and fostering these critical relationships and fundamental human skills. 001479002 538__ $$aMode of access: Internet via World Wide Web. 001479002 546__ $$aIn English. 001479002 5880_ $$aDescription based on online resource; title from PDF title page (publisher's Web site, viewed 30. 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