pt. 1. Coming out ourselves
ch. 1. Feeling "different": when we were young
ch. 2. Recognizing ourselves: personal best
ch. 3. Exploring: birds do it, bees do it
ch. 4. Parents: the time bomb
ch. 5. Taking control: navigating the reactions
ch. 6. Unearthing homophobia: beneath the surface
ch. 7. Ongoing process: three steps forward, one step back
ch. 8. Final frontier
pt. 2. Parents come out too
ch. 9. When parents come out: the struggle begins
ch. 10. First stage: you are still who you always were
ch. 11. Learning to accept: weeding the garden
ch. 12. From acceptance to empowerment: "so this is your journey".