000338541 000__ 02924cam\a2200325\a\4500 000338541 001__ 338541 000338541 005__ 20210513123149.0 000338541 008__ 081215s2009\\\\mau\\\\\\b\\\\001\0\eng\\ 000338541 010__ $$a 2008053513 000338541 020__ $$a9780618758197 000338541 020__ $$a0618758194 000338541 035__ $$a(OCoLC)ocn262426439 000338541 035__ $$a338541 000338541 040__ $$aDLC$$cDLC$$dBTCTA$$dYDXCP$$dC#P$$dBWX$$dBUR$$dCDX$$dVP@$$dCQU 000338541 049__ $$aISEA 000338541 05000 $$aHQ759.92$$b.M377 2009 000338541 08200 $$a306.874/7$$222 000338541 1001_ $$aMartin, Wednesday. 000338541 24510 $$aStepmonster :$$ba new look at why real stepmothers think, feel, and act the way we do /$$cWednesday Martin. 000338541 260__ $$aBoston :$$bHoughton Mifflin Harcourt,$$c2009. 000338541 300__ $$a326 p. ;$$c24 cm. 000338541 504__ $$aIncludes bibliographical references and index. 000338541 5050_ $$aA wall of one's own : becoming a stepmother -- "She's such a witch!" Fairy tale history and the stepmothering script -- "You're not my mother!" : and five other universal step-dilemmas -- "You're not my child!" : anger, jealousy, and resentment -- Him : understanding your husband -- Your marriage -- Sociobiology : what the birds, the bees, and the white-fronted bee-eaters can teach us about stepmothering -- Stepmothers worldwide : anthropology, attachment, context -- Stepmother sadness and depression : understanding the risk factors -- Women with adult stepchildren : lessons from "lifers". 000338541 520__ $$aA groundbreaking way of understanding the tensions that define relations between women and their stepchildren. Half of all women in the United States will live with or marry a man with children. And what woman with stepchildren has not--in order to defuse the often overwhelming challenges of the role--referred to herself as a "stepmonster"? Wednesday Martin unlocks the emotional mysteries of why stepmothers think and feel and act the way they do. Martin draws upon her own experience as a stepmother, interviews with other stepmothers and stepchildren, and fascinating insights from literature, anthropology, psychology, and evolutionary biology to reveal the little-understood realities of this most demanding role. She illuminates the harrowing process of becoming a stepmother, considers the myths and realities, counteracts the cultural notion that stepmothers are solely responsible for the challenges they encounter, and considers the emotional and social challenges men with children face when they remarry.--From publisher description. 000338541 650_0 $$aStepmothers. 000338541 650_0 $$aParent and child. 000338541 85200 $$bgen$$hHQ759.92$$i.M377$$i2009 000338541 85642 $$3Contributor biographical information$$uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1003/2008053513-b.html 000338541 85642 $$3Publisher description$$uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1003/2008053513-d.html 000338541 85642 $$3Contributor biographical information$$uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0905/2008053513-b.html 000338541 85642 $$3Publisher description$$uhttp://www.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy0905/2008053513-d.html 000338541 909CO $$ooai:library.usi.edu:338541$$pGLOBAL_SET 000338541 980__ $$aBIB 000338541 980__ $$aBOOK