000925311 000__ 03358cam\a2200421\i\4500 000925311 001__ 925311 000925311 005__ 20210515191108.0 000925311 008__ 131220t20142014mau\\\\\\b\\\\000\0aeng\c 000925311 010__ $$a 2013958088 000925311 019__ $$a948574138 000925311 020__ $$a9780991331307$$q(paperback) 000925311 020__ $$a0991331303$$q(paperback) 000925311 020__ $$z9780991331314$$q(electronic book) 000925311 020__ $$z0991331311$$q(electronic book) 000925311 035__ $$a(OCoLC)ocn870307859 000925311 035__ $$a925311 000925311 040__ $$aSTF$$beng$$erda$$cSTF$$dDLC$$dBDX$$dOCLCF$$dIAD$$dEEK$$dYDXCP$$dVP@$$dJTH$$dOCLCQ$$dNZAUC$$dOCLCO$$dOCL$$dSFR$$dNDS$$dOI6$$dMNS$$dKUA$$dOCLCQ$$dQQ3$$dOCL$$dVP@$$dFYM$$dOCLCO$$dXFF$$dTXS$$dAU@$$dOCLCO$$dWYL$$dOCLCO$$dAZN$$dBYV$$dOCLCQ$$dOCLCO$$dOCLCA$$dOCLCQ$$dOCLCO 000925311 042__ $$apcc 000925311 043__ $$an-us--- 000925311 049__ $$aISEA 000925311 05000 $$aE185.615$$b.I778 2014 000925311 08200 $$a305.800973$$223 000925311 1001_ $$aIrving, Debby,$$eauthor. 000925311 24510 $$aWaking up white :$$band finding myself in the story of race /$$cDebby Irving. 000925311 250__ $$a1st edition. 000925311 264_1 $$aCambridge, MA :$$bElephant Room Press,$$c[2014] 000925311 300__ $$axiv, 273 pages ;$$c23 cm 000925311 336__ $$atext$$btxt$$2rdacontent 000925311 337__ $$aunmediated$$bn$$2rdamedia 000925311 338__ $$avolume$$bnc$$2rdacarrier 000925311 504__ $$aIncludes bibliographical references. 000925311 5050_ $$aChildhood in white. What wasn't said -- Family values -- Race versus class -- Optimism -- Within the walls -- Midlife wake-up calls. From confusion to shock -- The GI Bill -- Racial categories -- White superiority -- The melting pot -- Headwinds and tailwinds -- Why didn't I wake up sooner? Icebergs -- Invisibility -- Zap! -- The whole story -- Logos and stereotypes -- Rethinking key concepts. My good people -- Color-blind -- My good luck -- My Robin Hood syndrome -- Twenty-five years of tossing and turning. Straddling two worlds -- Why do I always end up with white people? -- Diversity training -- Everyone is different; everyone belongs -- Belonging -- Surviving versus thriving -- Living into expectations -- I am the elephant -- Leaving my comfort zone. Intent and impact -- Feelings and the culture of niceness -- Courageous conversations -- Getting over myself -- Perception and fear -- Inner work. Becoming multicultural -- If only you'd be more like me -- The dominant white culture -- Boxes and ladders -- The rugged individual -- Equality starts with equity -- Bull in a China shop -- Outer work. From bystander to ally -- Solidarity and accountability -- From tolerance to engagement -- Listening -- Normalizing race talk -- Reclaiming my humanity. Whole again -- Tell me what to do! 000925311 520__ $$aFor twenty-five years, Debby Irving sensed inexplicable racial tensions in her personal and professional relationships. As a colleague and neighbor, she worried about offending people she dearly wanted to befriend. As an arts administrator, she didn't understand why her diversity efforts lacked traction. As a teacher, she found her best efforts to reach out to students and families of color left her wondering what she was missing. Then, in 2009, one "aha!" moment launched an adventure of discovery and insight that drastically shifted her worldview and upended her life plan. 000925311 60010 $$aIrving, Debby. 000925311 650_0 $$aRacism$$zUnited States. 000925311 650_0 $$aWhites$$zUnited States$$xSocial conditions. 000925311 651_0 $$aUnited States$$xRace relations. 000925311 655_7 $$aAutobiographies.$$2lcgft 000925311 85200 $$bgen$$hE185.615$$i.I778$$i2014 000925311 909CO $$ooai:library.usi.edu:925311$$pGLOBAL_SET 000925311 980__ $$aBIB 000925311 980__ $$aBOOK