Childhood in white. What wasn't said
Family values
Race versus class
Optimism
Within the walls
Midlife wake-up calls. From confusion to shock
The GI Bill
Racial categories
White superiority
The melting pot
Headwinds and tailwinds
Why didn't I wake up sooner? Icebergs
Invisibility
Zap!
The whole story
Logos and stereotypes
Rethinking key concepts. My good people
Color-blind
My good luck
My Robin Hood syndrome
Twenty-five years of tossing and turning. Straddling two worlds
Why do I always end up with white people?
Diversity training
Everyone is different; everyone belongs
Belonging
Surviving versus thriving
Living into expectations
I am the elephant
Leaving my comfort zone. Intent and impact
Feelings and the culture of niceness
Courageous conversations
Getting over myself
Perception and fear
Inner work. Becoming multicultural
If only you'd be more like me
The dominant white culture
Boxes and ladders
The rugged individual
Equality starts with equity
Bull in a China shop
Outer work. From bystander to ally
Solidarity and accountability
From tolerance to engagement
Listening
Normalizing race talk
Reclaiming my humanity. Whole again
Tell me what to do!